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July 07, 2008

Excellence is Riveting

Wimbledon 2008: John McEnroe hails Rafael Nadal victory as greatest final ever - Wimbledon 2008 Championships – Tennis - Telegraph .


I don't know what you were doing yesterday.  I spent almost 5 hours watching an astonishing display of focus, skill, talent, heart and total commitment: the Federer v. Nadal "gentleman's singles" title match at Wimbledon.

I've never been a big tennis fan, but I spent the weekend staying at a house where there was never a doubt about how Sunday would be spent.  And I have to say, I got completely and totally engaged.  These guys were simply amazing...it didn't matter that I don't really understand how tennis is scored, and that I was getting filled in on their careers as the match progressed.  You can tell when someone's world-class fantastic at something, even when you're less than a novice at that thing yourself.

Rafael-nadal-roger-federerThere were some rallies (I found out that's what they're called) that actually seemed impossible.  How did Nadal even get to that place on the court? How did he get his racquet under that ball, let alone return it to the exact right spot on Feder's side of the net? And how did Federer get airborne like that to return it? 

And what does this have to do with work?  Well, dear reader, you've heard my contention that doing anything to the best of your ability yields both excellence and joy, and this is just such a great example of that. A few times in my life, I've experienced Nadal/Federer-level of customer service, for example, and it was a pure delight.  I know I've been privileged to work with teams that are operating at near-world-class heights, and it's been exhilarating...for them, for me, and for the bottom line.

A do believe there's something in each of us that exults in mastery; and that mastery demonstrated improves and graces the world.

Go for it!

 

April 26, 2008

Synchronicity?

Link: Earthpages.org - Jung and Synchronicity.

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"Coincidence is God's way of remaining anonymous."
Albert Einstein

I've had a strange and wonderful couple of days. I won't go into all the details, but I will offer you one little piece of it: yesterday three different and completely unrelated people, none of whom knew each other, all strongly recommended that I read the same part of the same book.

The article above talks about this phenomenon - Carl Jung posited a principle called synchronicity, which he defined as "meaningful coincidence" or "an acausal connecting principle."

I don't know if you've had this experience, but I often find that when I have a clear intention - that is, when I have a good sense of the future I want to create for myself in a particular realm - events seem somehow to conspire to support me in achieving my goals. Obstacles are removed, resources show up, subtle and not-so-subtle directional signals get posted around my life.

This doesn't really track in the logical part of my brain...but then, I often suspect that logic is the tip of the iceberg of human experience.

Maybe it just comes down to this; that knowing what kind of life you want to create for yourself is a powerful thing.

What do you think?

December 02, 2007

Grateful In Spite of Circumstance

Link: You Already Know This Stuff.


I like "You Already know This Stuff"; Jodee, whose blog it is, has a wonderful spirit. So, here I am, sitting in O'Hare airport, caught in the First Great Storm of the winter (it hasn't seemed like that big a deal - I kind of don't get it). Anyway, I was supposed to fly from Madison, WI to NY yesterday afternoon, and then to Toronto tonight. Long story short: bus to Chicago, delay, cancel, delay, cancel -- and finally just threw in the towel and am headed directly from Chicago to Toronto this afternoon (I hope).

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And yet, I'm still feeling pretty grateful. Had a great and inspiring session with (of all things!) a group of lawyers on Friday; just had a lovely conversation with my husband; my computer's working, as is the internet connection; I'm healthy and reasonably sane.

So, Jodee's post(s) about gratitude resonated for me - especially the Garfunkel lyrics she offers.

I often feel if I can get through the most irritating, or boring, or challenging situations and still experience a measure of gratitude...I'm taking advantage of the amazing fact that I'm alive.

And that makes me grateful...

October 21, 2007

Wayne + Josh = A Good Listen

Link: TPN :: The Cranky Middle Manager Show » Blog Archive » The Cranky Middle Manager Show 116- The Personal MBA with Josh Kaufman.

This link is, once again, to Wayne Turmel's Cranky Middle Manager podcast. It's his latest offering, a great conversation with Josh Kaufman. I've mentioned Josh here before - he's the creator of the Personal MBA, a do-it-yourself approach to getting the core learning you'd get from an MBA program. The program is based on Josh's hand-selected list of 69 recommended books. I think it's a wonderful idea (autodidact that I am), and Josh explains it very clearly in this podcast. As usual, Wayne asks excellent questions, and pulls a lot of interesting insight from Josh.

One useful thing Josh talks about is how to read a book for maximum understanding. He bases his recommendations on one of the books on his list, Ten Days to Faster Reading.

The other reason I like this podcast is that Josh says great things about Growing Great Employees. (How could I not like that?) I mentioned in an earlier post that GGE is one of the 6 books he recommends in the PMBA area of "Management." I loved hearing Josh talk about my book in this podcast: he really understands and supports the essence of what I was trying to communicate.

The PMBA is such a great idea, and Josh is a wonderful, passionate spokesman for it: listening to this podcast will give you a fuller sense of how you could benefit from what Josh has put together.

Josh also unveils a new brand new concept he's developing: to find out about it, check out business mental models.

October 11, 2007

Milwaukee Makes Me Happy

Yesterday I had the opportunity to give a presentation to a gathering of businesspeople in Milwaukee, as part of the very cool LeaveSmarter series dreamed up by the smart folks at 800CEOREAD.

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There's a whole travel saga behind it that I won't go into (suffice it to say that my plane landed at 11:30am and I started speaking at 12:07pm!), but the important thing is that the folks who attended and I all had fun, and - acording to them - it was useful as well.

We were talking about culture change, leadership, and what people expect of leaders during a time of change. Which, as I noted to them, is now all the time.

The sense I got is that almost all of these folks really want to be good and effective leaders; they want to be people that employees admire and respect; they want their employees to succeed; they want to guide their organizations to a healthy and prosperous future. In short, they are well-intended.

Now, I know there's "many a slip twixt cup and lip" and that "the road to hell is paved with good intentions," and any other apt aphorisms you care to throw in -- but still. I was cheered, as I always am, to see that many companies are run by people who want to do well by doing the right thing.

Call me a relentless optimist.

What do you think - are most leaders basically good guys, or evil materialistic scumbags, or somewhere in between?

September 29, 2007

Postcards from the (Inside) Edge

G'day mate! I'm writing this from Australia, where I've just finished attending a conference at a retreat center outside of Brisbane. My husband and I and about 3500 other folks from all over the world spent five days with our teacher, a remarkable man named Prem Rawat. The focus - as is always the case when we see him - was inner peace. Many years ago he showed me a simple way to connect to a source of pure happiness inside myself, independent of my external circumstances. I occasionally have the chance to get together with him, be deeply reminded of that fact, and spend time luxuriating in that inner joy.

It was wonderful. I feel refreshed and rejuvenated, and ready to dive back into my somewhat hectic and very varied day-to-day life with a renewed clarity and enjoyment.

I'll talk with you again when I'm back in the USA...

September 21, 2007

Do You Love It, Part II

I was on a plane the other night, flying from New York to Milwaukee. I was thinking about the various things I could do: I could read the book I'd brought, I could re-arrange some stuff on my computer that needed re-arranging, I could finish the to-do list for my next week's client work, I could...

And then I remembered. I could finish writing the article I was working on! It was like remembering I had a present that I hadn't yet opened. I got all excited, pulled out my computer, and began. I dove in; got lost in beauty of language, of crafting a clear bridge from my head, heart and experience to my readers'. The next thing I knew, the pilot was telling me to shut off my computer, and we were close to landing.

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I thought to myself, "I really, truly love to write." And, like dominos falling behind the first, other things started making sense to me. For instance, people often ask me how I have the "discipline" to write books. And I've always said some version of, well, it's not that hard, I've got time on planes and trains, or late at night. I just find the time.

But the truth is: I love it. It's fun and gratifying and challenging and extremely fascinating to me, and I love feeling like I'm getting better at it, and I get really excited when I write something in a way that's both clear and true. I most love the sense that I'm offering my reader a gift: of knowledge, of capability, or of insight.

And the next domino was this: how extremely powerful it is to love what you do. I've always felt that to some extent (It's why Jim Collin's "best at, passionate about, drives the economic engine" resonated so deeply with me), but when I recognized how much I love writing, it struck me much more deeply. The love of some endeavor is such an enormously efficacious motivator: you just want to do it whenever you can.

Is there something you love to do? Is it part of your work? Could you make it part of your work?

June 23, 2007

Lisa Hanenberg Rocks

Link: Management Craft: The Aim of Management Training.

Lisa Hanenberg has a leadership and management blog, Management Craft, that I like a lot. It's funny, true, insightful and practical. I especially resonated with this post (linked above) about why companies do management training. Lisa opines that companies tend to favor the least important of all the possible outcomes from management training, and the least useful competencies in management trainers.

I completely agree, and we (my colleagues at Proteus and I) have been working for many years to address this. Rather than just trying to teach a "canned" lesson, we develop management learning experiences that provide managers with a clear pathway: we focus on what management is, why it's important, and how to do it. Our goal is for participants to see what's in it for them to behave differently, to be personally motivated to do so - and then to teach them the skills required. We even have a name for this: we call it LearningPath. It's the basic premise behind my book, as well.

We also have an instructor quality framework that addresses the main deficiencies in most trainer development. As Lisa says, most companies look for "trainers who can present materials" -- an almost pure focus on content knowledge. And, as most of us know from our own school experience, a person's intellectual grasp of a body of knowledge is nearly irrelevant to his or her effectiveness as a teacher!

In contrast, our Proteus instructor development approach focuses on three core elements of the trainer's job, not just one: we focus on content knowledge, but perhaps even more important, we focus on process skills and mindset.

Process skill are the "how" of learning. For instance: Can the instructor listen? Is he or she capable of creating a conversation with the learners? Can the instructor demonstrate the skills being taught so the participants can see what they're trying to learn? Does he or she know how to troubleshoot when things in the classroom don't go as expected?

Mindset is what the instructor believes about learning. We've found this is often the most important element, in terms of impact on the learners' experience and their outcomes. For instance, does the instructor believe that she is the source of learning, or does she believe that learning happens within the learner and that her job is simply to help catalyze that learning? (We think the latter is a more useful mindset for a trainer.) Does the instructor believe that it's his responsiblity to convince the learners that what he's saying is true, or does he believe that all he can reasonably do is offer what he knows? (Again, the latter tends to create a much better learning dynamic -- have you ever been in a workshop where a trainer gets stuck on trying to talk somebody into "buying" what he's trying to "sell"? Yikes - no fun.)

When we work with trainers, we assess them in these three areas, help them assess themselves, and then we work with them to develop in the needed areas.

It makes me proud to be able to say: Lisa, we agree with the problem, and we're offering a solution!

March 27, 2007

So I Said to Myself...

You know you talk to yourself, right? Don’t worry about it – everyone talks to themselves. However, I’m continually astonished at the degree to which our self-talk -- that internal monologue that runs pretty much continuously inside our heads -- becomes a self-fulfilling prophecy. Walk into an interview saying to yourself, “I bet I’m going to blow this...they’re going to hate me,” and – voila – you blow it and they hate you. While leading a project team, if your internal mantra is “We can’t do this...we’ll never be able to do this”; odds are, you’re right.

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As I observe this dynamic (not only in others, but in myself), I see the power of our belief in these negative assessments. We say we can’t, we believe it, and it affects our actions and our emotions in ways that lead to the bad outcomes we predict. For instance, in the interview where we predict failure for ourselves, our belief in that interior message causes us to behave in a stiff and clumsy way; to blank out when asked questions; to respond defensively…and we don’t get the job.

Unfortunately, the opposite isn’t always true: super-positive self-talk doesn’t necessarily yield good outcomes. Most of us have watched with a mixture of bemusement and pity as delusional American Idol contestants with no discernable talent confidently declare their imminent stardom.

In this, as in most things, the most effective approach seems to be the middle path. If you can revise your self-talk simply to be as accurate as possible, that seems to work best. For instance, in the interview situation, you might counter your I’m-going-to-blow-it self-talk by saying to yourself instead, “Being interviewed is nerve-wracking, and I’m nervous. But I know I’m qualified for this job, and I believe I’d be a good fit for the company. I’ll do my best to stay calm and open, and to present my strengths well. That’s all I can do.”

Try it and see how it works: let me know...

February 10, 2007

How It's Supposed To Be

I witnessed a really nice moment the other day between a boss (the CEO of a company we've worked with for a long time) and his employee (the head of a business unit). The boss - a really good guy and brilliant thinker who is actively engaged in continuing to grow as a leader - was making a strong point about something he really thought should happen. His employee disagreed. He looked at her for a few seconds, thinking, and then said, "You know, you're probably right - you know more about this issue than I do. Let's do that instead."

That was it. The conversation moved on and many ideas were advanced, decisions were made, next steps sketched out. The meeting ended.

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But I loved that moment of collaboration, of a boss staying open and flexible, receptive to ideas from his team. There's a quote from Michelangelo that I love: I have it on a plaque on my desk, where I can see it when I talk on the phone with clients and colleagues, and when I think about the future. The quote is "ancora imparo," which translates as "I am still learning," or "Still, I am learning." This was supposedly one of Michelangelo's favorite phrases, and one that he repeated throughout his long life - well into his eighties.

A great mantra for anyone who aspires to be a truly effective leader.